Most People Can't Quit Porn Alone. Accountability Coaching Can Change That!
Personalized one-on-one coaching that goes where an app can't —into the moments when you're most likely to give up.
“After a decade of porn use, relying on willpower and filters, “Arthur” is on the verge of breaking his all time clean record. Real accountability was the missing piece. Now he has a solid plan in place to handle future temptation. It’s been SO rewarding to be a part of this.”
~ Coach Austin
14-day money-back guarantee, no strings attachedduring the first 14 days of your first month of coaching
One-on-One Personal Accountability Coaching
Who is accountability coaching for?
It’s for people who are ready to do whatever it takes to remove pornography from their lives…because this program is going to force you to grow.
It’s for people who are still struggling despite having an accountability partner. If you layer on a coach on top of an accountability partner, you will see much better success.
It’s for people who don’t have an accountability partner at all, and don’t feel comfortable asking friends or family. Sometimes there’s just not someone you can talk to. Whether you’re a pastor, a woman suffering silently, or any other situation that needs privacy…this program gives you that someone.
It’s for people who need to “feel” the investment in order to get results. In the same way that hiring a personal trainer will force you to go to the gym…hiring an Accountability Coach will force you to take purity seriously.
Meet the coaches
Tony (Men's Coach)
While on his own journey to recovery, Tony's work as an RN helping veterans recover from addiction taught him valuable principles to overcome porn.
He's invested in others as an accountability partner for 5 years and has served in two church addiction ministries. Tony brings his personal porn recovery experience alongside a deep compassion and respect for the role accountability plays in recovery.
Austin (Men's Coach)
Austin unashamedly shares his story of being 6 months into his ministry as an assistant pastor before getting serious about quitting porn after years of struggle.
Since 2016, he's been overcoming porn, led a Celebrate Recovery group, and invested 4 years as personal accountability partner. He brings compassion and honesty in understanding the challenges you face.
Jay (Men's Coach)
Jay's personal journey of struggling for decades with pornography provides deep hope for men. It's never too late to recover from porn use!
In his golden years, he's been a sex addiction counselor for 8 years and has served as a caring accountability partner for over 6 years. He deeply desires to help others experience his hard-won freedom.
Laura (Women's Coach)
Laura knows how deeply porn can affect relationships and self-worth. She's spent 7 years as an accountability partner.
Along the way, she's been actively involved in learning about porn recovery by reading books and participating in group counseling sessions. She understands that the struggle is very challenging, but bears witness that the healing journey is worth every effort. There is hope on the other side for you.
What Coaching Clients Say
“Austin has been truly holding me accountable, actually checking in on me regularly and reaching out immediately if he sees any red flags. Very different from accountability partners in the past that were “too busy” or just not interested enough.
He has probably been the single most helpful part of my journey to recovery.”
“Everyone should have a Jay in their life. In fact, everyone should have an organization like Ever Accountable in their life. The work that you do is so vital. Accountability and good choices are so important and increasingly relevant in this world. Unfortunately, many of us find that out the hard way.
I can’t thank you enough for your non-judgmental approach.”
~ Simon
Your Accountability Coach will:
Be the same gender as you, so that they understand the journey
Consistently ask you how things are going, so that you don't hide anything
Help you identify your “triggers” so that you can avoid problems before they start
Celebrate your victories and coach you through defeats
Work alongside any other accountability partners you have, but they can also be a solo accountability partner
This coach can help you get the amazing freedom you’ve been longing for — even if you’ve been trying and failing for decades!
The Process
How It Works
A simple, proven four-step process to help you break free and stay free.
Sign Up & Assessment
Complete a brief intake so your coach understands your unique situation, triggers, and goals.
Install Ever Accountable
Set up the accountability software on all your devices for full transparency with your coach.
Attend Online Coaching Sessions
Meet privately online via video call with your dedicated coach who reviews your accountability reports, texts regularly, and guides your progress. If you're not a good fit, we will reassign you to a new coach, no questions asked.
Build Lasting Freedom
Develop a solid plan to handle temptation and build the life and relationships you truly want.
Real, Tangible Results That Last
Because accountability gives transparency to your life, you’ll experience a transformation that willpower alone could never achieve.
No More Secrets
Real accountability brings transparency and eliminates the secrecy that keeps you stuck and relapsing.
Better Relationships
Living honestly in total openness allows healing to begin.
Better Intimacy
Freedom from porn can improve intimacy in ways not thought possible.
Proven System
A structured coaching program backed by results and real accountability software.
Personalized Plan
Get a custom action plan designed around your specific triggers and goals.
Expert Coaching
Work one-on-one with an experienced accountability coach who understands your challenges and will celebrate your wins with you.
Who is this program NOT for?
It’s NOT for people who aren’t ready to change. You WILL be held to a higher standard (not perfection, just effort). If you’re not serious about trying to transform your life, don’t take one of the spots from someone who is.
It’s NOT for people who won’t use the coach. Sometimes you won’t be able to make a call or respond to a text, and that’s totally fine. But if you’re not responding for months, this won’t be worth it for you.
It’s NOT a substitute for marriage counseling, sexual addiction therapy, or mental health therapy. Our coaches can offer you plenty of hard-won advice, but they’re not therapists. And they can’t solve disagreements between two spouses.
You’ll need an active subscription to Ever Accountable to be considered for coaching.
If you know you’d like to join us, choose your plan below:
- 1 Call/Month
- 30 Minutes/Call
- 1 Weekly Check-in
- Weekly Report Review
- 2 Calls/Month
- 60 Minutes/Call
- 2 Weekly Check-ins
- Weekly Report Review
- Priority Relapse Response
- Ascend Online Recovery Course
Frequently Asked Questions
Will my coach judge me for what I’ve done or how many times I’ve relapsed?
Never. Many of our coaches share parts of their own stories privately with clients when the time is right, because real connection happens in the safety of a trusted relationship. Shame is already doing enough damage. Your coach won’t add to it.
Is this confidential?
Yes. Your coach signs a confidentiality agreement and cannot share anything about your sessions or reports. The only exception is if you disclose something that indicates you or someone else is in immediate danger — which is a legal requirement, not a choice.
What if my spouse or partner doesn’t know I’m struggling?
You’re not alone in that. Many clients start coaching privately. Coaching can be a powerful first step toward being ready to have that conversation, and your coach can help you think through it when the time comes.
What if I relapse while I’m being coached?
That’s exactly what your coach is there for. A relapse doesn’t mean failure, and it doesn’t mean coaching isn’t working. Your coach will reach out, help you reset, and work with you to understand what triggered it. Recovery is rarely a straight line, and your coach knows that.
How is this different from just using the Ever Accountable app?
The app provides transparency and monitoring. That’s an essential foundation. But data alone doesn’t change behavior. Your coach is a real person who checks in regularly, asks honest questions, and shows up when things get hard. Research consistently shows that human connection is what drives lasting change.
What if I don’t click with my coach?
Tell us and we’ll reassign you to a different coach, no questions asked. The relationship has to feel right for it to work, and we’d rather find you a better fit and help you succeed. We’re here for your success!
Do I need to use Ever Accountable when I sign up for coaching?
Yes, an active Ever Accountable subscription is required. Your coach reviews your accountability reports as part of the coaching process. If you’re not subscribed yet, you can start a free 14-day trial at everaccountable.com.
What does a typical week look like?
Your coach checks in by text once or twice a week and meets with you by video or phone call once or twice a month depending on your plan. From your very first conversation, your coach will ask the right questions to understand where you are and what you’re up against. If you hit a crisis point or relapse, they’ll reach out promptly. You won’t be left waiting until the next scheduled call.
Is there a money-back guarantee?
Yes. If you’re not satisfied within the first 14 days of your first month of coaching, we’ll refund your payment in full — no strings attached.
What if I’m not sure I’m ready?
Honestly, most people who sign up weren’t sure they were ready. What they were sure of was that what they’d been doing wasn’t working. If you’re on this page, something in you is looking for a way out. That’s enough to start.
Ready to Break Free?
If white-knuckling and willpower haven’t worked, you’re not alone. Join our proven accountability coaching program. Find the support you need to finally break free.